things Zaya need to learn

how to exercise and be clean. 

how to manage emotions. 

how to assert her boundaries. 

how to build resolve to do things. how to focus. 

how to believe that she can do anything she sets her mind to. 

how to be patient with results and timely with decisions and efforts.

how to be respectful and communal. 

how to look at people for their values instead of their outward labels. 

humility, leadership

throwing yourself at something

art appreciation - breadth

how to read, write, communicate. 

how to analyze and associate. 

how to understand the unfairness of society and navigate it. accept it instead of fight it so she can set her for success and equip herself to possibly fight at a later point. 

how bias works and how to handle it. 

how to handle rejection. 

Patience with people